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-You fall in love and double your wardrobe.

-Feeling the softness of a womyns skin.

-Enjoying the sensitivity and kinship of other lesbians and gays.

-Being a part of an evolving, diverse, colourful, inspirational and creative worldwide community/family.

-Increased self esteem from living honestly.

-You don't have to shave, style your hair, paint your nails or conform to any of that society-induced bullshit if you don't feel like it.

-When you have your period, your partner can empathize, rather than patronize.

-The sex!

-Feeling the deep emotional bond that is reciprocated.

-Your partner is able to understand, intrinsically, what is it to be female and be subjected to sexism, and she's most likely a feminist too.

-Being outside the 'mainstream'.

-Shocking and confronting people with their own prejudices.

-The opportunity to proudly participate in Mardi Gras, Gay Pride and Community events.

-Cuddling, holding and caressing, and not just as 'foreplay'

-Experiencing a relationship, and deep love, on so many levels... Emotional, Spiritual, Romantic, Sexual and Friendship, with your partner.

And the worst:

-We're still fighting for our basic civil rights.

-Men 'getting off' on the idea of your sexual orientation **ewwww!!**

-Having to 'out' yourself constantly.

-Never knowing 'for sure' if someone you're talking to is also gay.